But even Fathers of the Year need advice from Maggie. After recounting his biggest parenting fail to Maggie, Hamish asked a question that is almost sure to have been asked by every other parent in the world at some stage or another: What’s the best way to deal with Big Feelings?
“We know while they’re still flooded that they’re allowed to be flooded,” Maggie said. “Because when they’re saying those things, especially those big things like ‘You don’t love me!’, that’s a way for her to discharge big cortisol out of her brain and her body.
“But what we want her to do is as it’s depleting, we want to be able to turn that around.”
Hear exactly what Maggie recommends below:
Aside from parenting fails and Big Feelings, Hamish and Maggie ran the full gamut on what it is to be parented, and to be a parent, covering everything from the trap Hamish warns other parents not to fall into, and how being named Father of the Year took a full two days before his kids were using it to one-up him.
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