The Three Questions From Wayne Bennett That Shaped Graham Arnold’s Departure From The Socceroos

In the latest episode of The Howie Games, recently departed Socceroos coach Graham Arnold has opened up about his decision to step down, revealing a pivotal moment that included a heart-to-heart with the legendary Wayne Bennett.

Arnold emphasised that his journey with the national team was never about his own personal glory.

“The most important thing is, it’s not about me. It’s the nation’s team. I wanted to do what’s right for the nation and the players,” he shared, reflecting on his deep commitment to Australian football.

In a moment of vulnerability, Arnold discussed his conversation with soccer icon Gus Hiddink, who first offered sage advice when Arnold expressed uncertainty about his future. But it was seven-time Premiership coach Wayne Bennett’s three probing questions that truly helped Arnold’s decision.

“When you wake up in the morning, how do you feel?” Bennett asked, pushing Arnold to reflect on his emotional state.

The second question—“When you look into the players’ eyes, how do you feel? What do you see?” – struck a chord, prompting Arnold to assess his connection with the squad.

The final question was a metaphor that resonated deeply, “If you had a lemon and you squeezed it, do you think there’s any juice left in it?”

The simple yet profound inquiry from one of Australia’s most successful coaches – and one of Arnold’s close friends – made him realise that it was time for new beginnings.

For Arnold’s heartfelt answers, listen in to the full podcast to hear the full story and insights from one of Australian football’s most passionate figures.

Don’t miss this candid exploration of Australian leadership, legacy, and a special passion for the game and the green and gold.